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Re: Ex
« Reply #15 on: August 04, 2009, 11:04:53 AM »
I have this question Nir: Why would the parents ask you if you wanted to be with her. You used to be with her but not for two years. That makes me wonder if possibly her parents were told you two were seeing each other again or something like that. You don;t say much but sounds like they may think you are the father. Did you tell them you are not the one? Also as others have said, since it is not your child and you have seldom even spoken to her in the past 2 years, you should just walk away. If she wants to talk sure go ahead and talk but you need to make it clear to her that that is as far as any relationship with her can go. Let her parents know that same thing so there are no miscommunications. She appears to have a few problems that you REALLY do not want to get involved in to a large degree. These being 1) pregnant and doesn't know from who - this means she has been having sex with multiple people and has no clue who it is that got her pregnant (and possibly gave her other things as well), and 2) she seems to be rather mentally unbalanced and people canm snap at a moments notice when they are like that. Sorry to be so longwinded but yeah, stay away if at all possible.
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Re: Ex
« Reply #16 on: August 04, 2009, 11:32:31 AM »
Yeah, I've told them. And what they were asking was more like a friend relationship, not step-father kind of.

She got out of the hospital today and called me saying she's sorry for all the problem she caused to me. We were talking on the phone and she told me that she was "semi-raped" (being high, drunk and someone took advantage of her current situation). She also wanted to come over and talk with me this weekend and I promised to think about it. She was also on anti-pregnancy (don't really know the real name for that in english) pills for now.
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Re: Ex
« Reply #17 on: August 04, 2009, 02:02:13 PM »
lmao i like face's idea, RLH.
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Re: Ex
« Reply #18 on: August 04, 2009, 06:45:47 PM »
We normally just call it "The Pill" or "Birth Control" there are several brands of it.


I don't see anything wrong with you talking to her as friends.. But don't let her lost puppy act get you into something stupid. Know what I mean?
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Re: Ex
« Reply #19 on: August 23, 2009, 11:52:22 PM »
wow.. just wow.
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Re: Ex
« Reply #20 on: September 09, 2009, 05:28:58 AM »
Tip taken. I'll run. Fast. And far.
But what the hell do I tell to her parents?

bye is always a nice way to go

but seriously if its not yours don't be there for her, let her learn from her own mistakes the real farther should be there to look after her and the kid and if neither of them are ready for a commitment like that, then thats thier problem, not yours. i agree with the others run and run fast
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